Well, just because they did something bad doesn't necessarily mean they're a bad person...sometimes good people do bad things. And if they did it a long time ago, maybe they're trying to be better and atone for what they did? I mean, if they've been your friend up until now, you kind of have to decide for yourself if you trust that they're trying to become better. Especially if they've been nice to you and all. It's not like they were lying about being your friend, I hope. Secrets can be a little hard to swallow, yeah. But people's pasts aren't always something pretty...
You can't help feeling the way you feel about a person, though. If you're scared of them, there's no way you can flip a switch and say you're not scared anymore. It's really your call whether or not you want to keep being their friend, since you can't force yourself to stay friends with someone you're not comfortable with. But I think you should always go with your gut and follow your heart. You know, trust your instinct and do what you think is best for yourself. Do you think you can still be their friend, after what they told you? Or do you think that fear is going to get in the way?
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Well, just because they did something bad doesn't necessarily mean they're a bad person...sometimes good people do bad things. And if they did it a long time ago, maybe they're trying to be better and atone for what they did? I mean, if they've been your friend up until now, you kind of have to decide for yourself if you trust that they're trying to become better. Especially if they've been nice to you and all. It's not like they were lying about being your friend, I hope. Secrets can be a little hard to swallow, yeah. But people's pasts aren't always something pretty...
You can't help feeling the way you feel about a person, though. If you're scared of them, there's no way you can flip a switch and say you're not scared anymore. It's really your call whether or not you want to keep being their friend, since you can't force yourself to stay friends with someone you're not comfortable with. But I think you should always go with your gut and follow your heart. You know, trust your instinct and do what you think is best for yourself. Do you think you can still be their friend, after what they told you? Or do you think that fear is going to get in the way?